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The Slow Road North

How I Found Peace In an Improbable Country

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70 of 70 copies available
70 of 70 copies available

From the acclaimed author of the "wonderfully funny and openhearted" (NPR) Drinking with Men comes a poignant, wrenching, and ultimately hopeful book—equal parts memoir and social history—that follows the author, after a series of tragic losses, to Northern Ireland, where she finds a path toward healing.

Rosie Schaap had a solid career as a journalist and a life that looked to others like nonstop fun: all drinking and dining and traveling to beautiful places—and getting paid to write about it. But under the surface she was reeling from the loss of her husband and her mother—who died just one year apart. Caring for them had claimed much of her daily life in her late thirties. Mourning them would take longer.

It wasn't until a reporting trip took her to the Northern Irish countryside that Rosie found a partner to heal with: Glenarm, a quiet, seaside village in County Antrim. That first visit made such an impression she returned to make a life. This unlikely place—in a small, tough country mainly associated with sectarian strife—gave her a measure of peace that had seemed impossible elsewhere.

Weaving personal narrative and social history, The Slow Road North is a moving and wise look at how a community can offer the key to healing. It's a portrait of a complicated place at a pivotal time—through Brexit, a historic school integration, and a pandemic—and a love letter to a village, a culture, and a country.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      Starred review from June 3, 2024
      In this affecting memoir, Schaap (Drinking with Men) traces her path forward after two devastating losses. In 2010, Schaap’s husband died of cancer; the following year, her mother died after a long illness. Schaap’s sorrow was compounded because she and her husband were separated when he first got sick and she and her mother had a strained relationship for most of Schaap’s life. After their deaths, Schaap struggled to keep her head above water until a reporting trip took her to Glenarm, a hardscrabble coastal village in Northern Ireland, where she was reminded she was in “a country striving day after day to surmount sorrows of its own.” She was so moved that, after returning home to New York City, she packed up and moved to Glenarm, forging tenuous friendships with her neighbors and investigating the region’s difficult history as a means of moving on. Schaap marries a reporter’s curiosity with a humorist’s eye for detail, matching bits of regional history with hilarious anecdotes about her husband and mother (of her mom’s shih tzu: “ a sociopathic fuckup of a dog”). The result is a nuanced and poignant account of what comes after grief. Agent: Ashley Lopez, Waxman Literary.

    • AudioFile Magazine
      Narrating her own memoir, author Rosie Schaap transports listeners from bustling New York to pastoral Northern Ireland in this story of loss, love, and eventual healing. When Schaap is just 39, her husband and mother pass away within a year of each other. Still struggling with grief nearly a decade later, she moves to Belfast for a writing program right before the pandemic hits. Schaap's voice is steady and measured, and she weaves poetry and Irish folktales throughout the chapters. The audiobook shines when Schaap talks about friends in her new home, the village of Glenarm, her voice reflecting affection and warmth. In starting over, Schaap falls in love again and finds peace that might not have been possible if she'd stayed in New York. C.A.P. © AudioFile 2024, Portland, Maine
    • Library Journal

      December 6, 2024

      Former New York Times columnist Schaap's (Drinking with Men: A Memoir; Becoming a Sommelier) heartfelt memoir blends social history with personal reflection, and the author narrates the audiobook with warmth and grace. After enduring the devastating losses of her husband and mother, Schaap embarked on a journey toward healing that led her to Glenarm, a quiet village in Northern Ireland. She had consistently led a vibrant life as a journalist, but underneath, she was grieving deeply. Caring for her loved ones consumed her life until she found unexpected solace in Glenarm, a place that is frequently associated with Ireland's history under and after British colonialism but provided a sense of peace and belonging that helped Schaap heal. This memoir intertwines the author's journey with a broad history of Northern Ireland, including Brexit and the pandemic. VERDICT Schaap depicts the profound impact a community can have on personal healing, offering listeners an intimate exploration of grief, recovery, and the power of place. The audiobook brims with compassion and an inviting spirit.--Susan McClellan

      Copyright 2024 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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