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Magical Realism for Non-Believers

A Memoir of Finding Family

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A young woman from Minnesota searches out the Colombian father she's never known in this powerful exploration of what family really means

He loved Colombia too much to leave it. The explanation from her Minnesotan mother was enough to satisfy a child's curiosity about her missing father. But at twenty-one, Anika Fajardo wanted more. She wanted to know her father better and to know what kind of country could have such a hold on him. And so, in 1995, Fajardo boarded a plane and flew to Colombia to discover a birthplace that was foreign to her and a father who was a stranger. There she learns that sometimes, no matter how many pieces you find, fitting together a family history isn't easy.

With her tentative entry into her father's world, Fajardo steps on a path that will take her in surprising directions, toward unsuspected secrets about her family and herself. Set against the changing backdrops of Colombia and the American Midwest, her journey carries her back to the 1970s and the beginnings of her parents' broken marriage, and forward to the present day, where the magic and reality of love and heartache—and her own experience as a parent—await her. The way is strewn with obstacles, physical and metaphysical—from the perils encountered on a mountain road in Colombia to the death of a loved one to the birth of her own child—but the toughest to negotiate are the shifting place of memory and truth while coming to understand her place in her family and in the world.

Vivid and heartfelt in the telling, Fajardo's story is powerfully compelling in its bridging of time and place and in its moving depiction of self-transformation. Family, she comes to find, is where you find it and what you make of it.

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    • Kirkus

      February 15, 2019
      A young woman crosses a cultural divide in search of her past.In her debut memoir, Fajardo (The Dish on Food and Farming in Colonial America, 2017, etc.) recounts her emotional journey, at age 21, to find the father she had not seen since she was a young child. Born in Colombia, the author grew up in Minnesota; her American mother told her that her father, Renzo, loved his native country so much that he did not want to leave. The truth, Fajardo learned, was much more complicated, as were her feelings for the stranger with gray-flecked black hair and mustache, smelling of cigarette smoke and soap, who greeted her, accompanied by his young wife, when she landed in Colombia. Their reunion was awkward despite each being able to speak the other's language. Fajardo wanted not only to know Renzo, but to understand why her mother could not live with him--in short, "the complicated truth of these two people who brought me into the world, the events that had aligned to create the life I was living." She discovered more than her parents' apparent incompatibility. Her father was "overly emotional and fiercely closed off," she writes, "and my mother reacts to everyone's mood, switching back and forth between bliss and despair." Her mother felt alienated and isolated in Colombia, and Renzo felt the same when they returned to Minneapolis. Those differences proved unbridgeable, but there were other problems, as well, including her father's infidelity and, for the author, a shocking revelation. Fajardo strains to make connections between the events of her life and Gabriel García Márquez's One Hundred Years of Solitude. When it was published in the 1960s, she writes, "magical realism was part of the landscape, not a literary genre." However, this story, marked by disillusion, yearning, sadness, and one happy coincidence, does not draw upon or evoke magical realism; nor does Fajardo need García Márquez to justify or bolster her memoir.A forthright and sensitive tale of a daughter's quest.

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    • Booklist

      April 1, 2019
      Colombian-born, Minnesota-bred Fajardo's midwestern mother and South American father, both artists, enjoyed a passionate romance in the 1970s that quickly resulted in her birth. But Fajardo and her mother didn't stay with her dad in Colombia for long, and Fajardo was instead raised around her maternal extended family in suburban Minnesota. On a break between college semesters, 21-year-old Fajardo decides it's time to meet the father she hasn't known since infancy. She travels to Colombia, gets to know her dad, and reconnects with parts of herself too often quelled by the homogeneity of her American life. Not long after, she discovers she has a half brother, only four months younger than she: a bonus she never imagined. She finds equal moments of joy, frustration, and pride while weaving him into her life. They eventually raise their own children as cousins, giving roots to a family unit originally planted in unstable soil. Fajardo revisits interactions and places with intricately remembered emotion, making for a delicious dive into the complicated, beautiful messes that love can make.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2019, American Library Association.)

    • Kirkus

      February 15, 2019
      A young woman crosses a cultural divide in search of her past.In her debut memoir, Fajardo (The Dish on Food and Farming in Colonial America, 2017, etc.) recounts her emotional journey, at age 21, to find the father she had not seen since she was a young child. Born in Colombia, the author grew up in Minnesota; her American mother told her that her father, Renzo, loved his native country so much that he did not want to leave. The truth, Fajardo learned, was much more complicated, as were her feelings for the stranger with gray-flecked black hair and mustache, smelling of cigarette smoke and soap, who greeted her, accompanied by his young wife, when she landed in Colombia. Their reunion was awkward despite each being able to speak the other's language. Fajardo wanted not only to know Renzo, but to understand why her mother could not live with him--in short, "the complicated truth of these two people who brought me into the world, the events that had aligned to create the life I was living." She discovered more than her parents' apparent incompatibility. Her father was "overly emotional and fiercely closed off," she writes, "and my mother reacts to everyone's mood, switching back and forth between bliss and despair." Her mother felt alienated and isolated in Colombia, and Renzo felt the same when they returned to Minneapolis. Those differences proved unbridgeable, but there were other problems, as well, including her father's infidelity and, for the author, a shocking revelation. Fajardo strains to make connections between the events of her life and Gabriel Garc�a M�rquez's One Hundred Years of Solitude. When it was published in the 1960s, she writes, "magical realism was part of the landscape, not a literary genre." However, this story, marked by disillusion, yearning, sadness, and one happy coincidence, does not draw upon or evoke magical realism; nor does Fajardo need Garc�a M�rquez to justify or bolster her memoir.A forthright and sensitive tale of a daughter's quest.

      COPYRIGHT(2019) Kirkus Reviews, ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.

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